Manners are best taught by example. Since families typically do not have as much time together as they used to (due to being busy and working too many hours), those “teaching by example” opportunities are few. However, I think one of the main culprits causing lack of civility is the fact that most of us are too busy and we get overwhelmed. When that happens, manners and thoughtfullness often goes out the window. Making a genuine effort to slow down and enjoy leisure time goes a long way in improving civility.

Patsy, I agree completely, I tend to say yes too often because I care for my friends and then I get stressed out to do everything of which I agree. I have the biggest challenge with time, but somehow I find a second to hold a door for someone, use my blinker while driving and don’t talk on my cell phone in the doctor’s office. I also take just a few seconds to tell my daughter what I expect of her as well. Imagine, some parents allow their kids to text message at a family dinner. It all comes down to investment, awareness and discipline –just in my opinion. Thank you so much for your response! Hilarie