When someone suggested I talk to Daniel Bobik for The Q&A this week, I knew right away it would be good.
The former Oklahoma State guard is a talker.
And I mean that in a good way.
He doesn’t just talk to hear himself yammer. He is thoughtful and insightful. He has good stuff to say. Lots of good stuff. So much good stuff, in fact, that we couldn’t fit it all into the newspaper.
Here is The Q&A with Bobik in its entirety:
Jenni Carlson: Admit it — first two days of the tournament, you play hookie.
Daniel Bobik: Absolutely. That’s what we’re doing right now. Don’t tell anybody, we’re havin’ a barbecue.
JC: Are you even more into March Madness after having been a part?
DB: I watched it as a kid, but I never really understood the whole tournament bracket thing until I got done playing and started doing it myself. My cousin has a little family pool. There’s about 15 or 20 people in there. My first year that I was out, I won, and I was excited.
JC: So, who do you have winning this year?
DB: I’m pretty loyal to the Big 12. I kind of went out on a limb and had KU and
Texas in the Final Four. I was real impressed with both those teams in the Big 12 Tournament. I want the Big 12 to do well. I want all those teams to win.
JC: Kansas-Texas in the final. Who wins?
DB: KU. I think Bill Self’s an awesome coach. Most of those guys are juniors, have been around a couple years, and it’s about time that they win one because they have enough talent.
JC: So, can you unabashedly say you’re playing hookie because you work for a basketball team?
DB: I brought my barbecue grill from my yard. I put it in my neighbor’s truck, and I brought it downtown. We’re kind of working in the morning, then we stop for an hour or whatever to grill. We have turkey burgers and hamburgers and hot dogs. I was in charge of the grill and bringing hamburgers. Somebody else brought turkey and a side. Somebody else brought some soda. I cooked. I had my apron on.
JC: If you’re firing up the grill again, I’m thinking I know the way to
Tulsa. And I’m good at deviled eggs.DB: Deal. Bring it.
JC: Seriously, though, tell me what being the director of ticket sales for the 66ers means?DB: When I was in
Germany and I decided to be done playing … the team offered me a contract for a second year, but I realized it just wasn’t for me. I felt like I needed to come back to
Oklahoma. Really felt like this was home because my wife and I had such a great experience in
Stillwater.
I took a job with the Bank of Oklahoma, and six months later, they did some laying off. And the week before Christmas, I was laid off. We decided that we wanted to stay here in
Oklahoma. The 66ers … they actually contacted me. I wasn’t thinking about getting into the business side of basketball. Took a lot less money to do this, but I felt like it was an opportunity for me to learn the business side and be around a sport that I love. As a basketball player, they tell you to show up and such and such a time, and you go out there and you play and that’s pretty much it. But there’s so much more that goes into a basketball game. It’s a business. Unless you’re doing it on a day to day basis, you don’t understand it.
JC: So, is this a first step toward something down the road?DB: I used to think that I wanted to get closer to the basketball side. I’m talking basketball all the time. I’m talking about the team. But I’m not really around it. I’m not really at practice. I’m not really around the players a lot. I thought at one point I wanted to switch over more to the basketball operations side and maybe become a general manager in the NBA. But then just recently I realized the sacrifice that I’m going to have to make to get there. I’m basically going to have to sacrifice my family for my career in the sense that to be a general manager in the NBA the next step is to become a scout and you’re out on the road all the time. There’s no stability, and it’s kind of crazy. I realized the business side … allows you to live somewhat more of a normal lifestyle which is the balance I’m trying to find. I love my family, and I want to be around them, and I want to watch my kids grow up. But I still have a passion about sports and want to be around sports. Recently, I’ve thought that I want to get back into college and maybe do the athletic administration route. Maybe become an athletic director some day.
JC: OK, back to the NCAA Tournament. True or false: you blocked that shot at the end of that Elite Eight game.DB: No comment.
JC: C’mon.DB: The answer’s absolutely yes, but that’s not the right answer. At the time, I thought that I did, but then I looked at different pictures. I did not, to be real honest.
JC: But you thought you did that night.DB: Absolutely. I totally thought that I did. I thought I got a finger on it. I knew that I challenged it really hard and was five inches or six inches taller than the guy, so I figured that I was pretty close to it. But I didn’t let him go to the basket and I didn’t foul him. I kept him in front of me, and I made him take a tough shot. Let’s just leave it at that, OK?
JC: And you won the game. Need you say anymore?DB: Yeah, right.
JC: An even more pressing question. Who was more popular after that tournament, you or the Bobik sisters?
DB: Oh, man, Natalie and Kristi were far more popular than I’ve ever dreamed of being.
JC: Funny that neither of your wife or her sister were Bobiks by birth.
DB: That’s whereOklahoma
Statewas good for me and my family. The fact that she had such an awesome experience and was part of that — and Jaxton as well — it just made the whole thing special for our family.
JC: Any more Bobik munchkins running around?
DB: We have a little girl. Her name is Blaykli. She was born in
Germany about two months before the season got over. She’ll be 2 on March 31.
JC: And how old is Jaxton?
DB: Jaxton is 5½. He just started kindergarten. Crazy. He was six weeks old when I got here that season I redshirted.
JC: That has to be weird.
DB: It’s really weird, especially when I’m watching the tournament and realizing just four or five years ago I was in college. I’m growing up. I think I’m the only guy that has a “real job” that I graduated with. Ivan’s playing overseas, and John Lucas, he’s bouncing around but still playing, and the Graham twins, and Terrence Crawford’s playing in the D-League somewhere. I think I’m the only guy that’s hung it up and said, “It was good to me and how can I take advantage of that?”
But I wouldn’t trade any of it. I think that’s what made my situation unique that my family was a part of it. Natalie and Jaxton, we have all these pictures and things. It means a lot to us.
JC: What are you going to tell the kiddos about when their dad played in the NCAA Tournament?
DB: When I was in high school, my dad found an NCAA watch from the early 90s at a pawn shop. I thought that was the coolest thing. I used to wear that around. In fact, it was a Final Four watch now that I think of it. Now, I have one of my own. Who knows? Maybe Jaxton will wear that around some day. I’ll let him know how much fun it was. But it’s hard work. You’re making sacrifices to be a part of the team. I’m going to tell him it was a lot of fun, but it was a lot of hard work. It’s some of the best memories I have because I had a goal and a talent and developed my talent. It gave me a lot of opportunities to experience great things.