Has graduation become impersonal?
I got to wondering this after visiting the Cox Convention Center last week to cover the Academic All-State awards. For those of you who don’t have high school seniors in the family, the convention center is graduation central this time of year. Classes from city and metro schools rotate through every few hours. For me, at least, the thought of pomp and circumstance for 120 minutes or so, followed by a quick hustle out the door, reminds me of a shoestring wedding.
Enjoy the food. Sip the champagne. You’ve got 20 minutes to congratulate the bride and groom before the 10-minute photo shoot of the wedding party, then five minutes to blow bubbles outside the church.
Not that it’s anybody’s fault — the convention center is popular because it is first-rate and has sufficient space to accommodate large graduating classes. Conversely, most schools don’t have the space. Only one Oklahoma City high school graduates its students on campus.
Mammoth Broken Arrow Senior High School, where I attended, resembles a community college more than a high school. Still, it didn’t have anywhere near the room needed to graduate almost 1,000 people. We instead went to the Mabee Center at Oral Roberts University. If I remember correctly, the evening was very long and formed my expectation for high school commencements.
Also, schools’ zero-tolerance of graduation disruption makes for a blander time than perhaps is necessary. Would a beach ball really hurt anyone? Or harmlessly pretending to trip, a la Chevy Chase in a comedy skit, on stage?
I know schools need to maintain order, especially when students have little to lose because they know they’re getting their diplomas.
It just kind of makes me long a bit for a more laid-back time long before I graduated.
Any thoughts on this?
JEFF RAYMOND
Education Writer